Lauren Simpson was 34 years old when she learned she had breast cancer. It was the first of many surprises that year.
Another surprise came when pre-surgery lab tests revealed she was pregnant. Lauren had a difficult decision to make. She could terminate the pregnancy and begin cancer treatment immediately, or she could continue her pregnancy and delay her treatment until her baby could tolerate the strong medicine she needed.
Lauren had a history of unsuccessful pregnancies. Relying on faith, she delayed her treatment. Her son, Isaac, was born Oct. 30, 2020.
“The chances of this baby surviving were not good. But God proved the statistics wrong,” Lauren said.
Lauren’s Story
David Simpson posted a picture of his wife, Lauren, to his Facebook page on Dec. 14, 2019.
Lauren is smiling, walking down Broad Street in Rome, holding the hand of their daughter, Sadie, who is sporting a cheetah print jacket and black cat ears. Lauren is smiling with her eyes. She was clearly happy and had no idea that she would be diagnosed with cancer just a few weeks later.
The 34-year-old wife and mother discovered a lump in her breast in early 2020. She followed up with her family physician, who recommended a mammogram. Two days later, Lauren learned she had breast cancer, becoming 1 of 8 women diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime. She would need surgery, chemotherapy and radiation.
Cancer was Lauren’s first surprise of 2020.
Following a February surgery, Lauren was scheduled to begin chemotherapy in March.
Then, she said, “the world shut down.”
The COVID-19 pandemic meant Lauren would be alone for significant parts of her treatment, beginning with surgery to place a port through which she would receive potentially lifesaving drugs.
If cancer was her first surprise, the pandemic was the second, and Lauren was caught completely off guard by the third.
Prepped for a surgical procedure to place a port where the chemo could flow straight into her body, someone on her care team called a time out. Lauren’s labs revealed another surprise. She was pregnant.
Her oncologist, Dr. Melissa Dillmon, gave her a difficult choice. She could terminate the pregnancy and begin chemotherapy immediately, or she could continue her pregnancy and delay treatment for several weeks. Lauren had lost two other pregnancies, and she wanted more children. She decided to delay her treatment.
“We ultimately decided it was in God’s hands. We wanted to have another baby,” she said.
The reality of having cancer while pregnant during a pandemic meant Lauren had to go to her prenatal and oncology appointments alone. In addition, she was homeschooling her daughter to avoid the risk of her bringing infections home while Lauren was in treatment.
Lauren finished chemo in October, and, yes, she rang the bell signaling the end of her treatment.
“I’m usually a strong, brave-face kind of person,” Lauren said, “but when I rang that bell, tears just poured down my face. I think it was the combination of realizing, ‘Oh my gosh, I actually finished this and I‘m still pregnant.’ I had never carried a baby that far in a pregnancy. This had felt like the longest months of my life, and I was finally done.”
Her son, Isaac, was born Oct. 30, just a couple of weeks after finishing treatment. His name is a reference to the Biblical story of Abraham and Sarah.
“God told them, ‘I’m going to give you a baby,’ and Sarah laughed. Then God asked, ‘Is anything too hard for the Lord?’” Lauren said. “The chances of this baby surviving were not good. But God proved the statistics wrong. With Isaac having to go through the chemo with me, I knew that was the perfect name.”
Lauren’s journey also required 27 radiation treatments that came after Isaac was born. That was five years ago.
Today, she’s in remission. Isaac is 5 and “living his best pre-K life.” Lauren has a new career — yet another unexpected surprise along her journey.
While homeschooling their daughter, Lauren discovered she really enjoyed teaching. She quit her work in marketing and began teaching kindergarten. And now, she’s pursuing a master’s degree in early childhood education.
Each person’s cancer journey is unique to the individual. In Lauren’s case, cancer yielded five scary, tragic, difficult, beautiful, exciting surprises that are now a part of her survivor’s story.